Friday, June 10, 2022

WHAT A WEEK

Oh, you guys! It feels just like old times because Blogger uploaded my pictures in random order. I guess it’s impossible for me to bury the lede: NEWS OF THE WEEK is that Jack completed middle school and is going to be a FRESHMAN. WHAT.
Jack’s last day of school:
Minnie being Minnie.
Oh look! Here we are at Jack’s graduation ceremony
Minnie started a new class at The Little Gym. Princess Anna (I mean, Queen Anna, technically, but this doll is from the first movie) has to watch here, obvi.
Oh look! The school picnic is back!! (I failed the picnic, BTW. Not only were Harry and I late with Dorothy’s Culvers, but the door dash guy was ALSO late with Coop’s Panera.)
SLIIIIIIIIIIDE. Harry will probably not come back to the pool when he’s not working again this summer because it was so cold, and he had to do this 45 times.
Perfect pool nights this week. PERFECT. (This is exactly how crowded I like the pool to be).
Date night. (Actually, we were just buying teacher gift cards and had a quick drink).
Literally jumping for joy that her bestie could come to the pool on the last day of school.
Aaaaaaaand we are back at graduation.
SOFTBALL
Minnie’s toy doppelgänger 
LAST! Day! Of! SCHOOL!
Best brother!
We were EARLY to graduation ( which was so weird— we are NEVER early).
Last day of third and fourth grade
Back to the picnic
A walk with a cookie because WHY NOT
Last middle school drop off— I am really going to miss that school.
She really wanted to go onstage with Jack
Coffee outside: not just for vacation
Garbage dinner!
Oh my gosh this is getting so silly. Back to the school picnic

Jack brought 7 friends to eat pizza. Dorothy brought her bestie from next door. Coop met up with his two BFFs, and harry the lifeguard entertained Minnie. Ben and I were just so happy that everyone was happy and we can do these things together.
Our last coffee run of the year (we went weekly)
Minnie, not feeling TLG
The middle school graduate
Actually? I am glad these pictures uploaded chaotically because that’s how the last week of school felt. Harry was home all week because he didn’t have to take finals (he is taking such hard classes and doing so well— we’re so proud). The other kids all had daytime stuff we had to go to. Ben had a crazy busy work week. I am still hiring grad students for fall. I didn’t realize that the previous week was our last normal week, so I didn’t really enjoy it, you know?

Transitions are hard for me, but I am sure we‘ll be in the swing of summer (in-person and online teaching) and all) before we know it.
 

Sunday, June 05, 2022

PARRRK

 Minnie is in love with parks.

Unfortunately, she is also MUCH TOO TINY to play safely on most of them.

So, I have been using this epoch between the semester and the start of summer (I will have to talk more about summer because I am really excited about it) to find the very best toddler parks in town. Expect a Madison mom roundup soon. But for now, some pictures of the ones we have enjoyed:













We are looking for a few things in our ideal park: ride-on toys, low-to-the-ground climbers, wide stairs that she can navigate on her own, slides that are fun enough but also not so tall that she’ll fall off and break her neck, somewhere to enjoy a pastry or some strawberries. Not too much to ask for, right?

Saturday, June 04, 2022

PHEW! Baseball, dance photos, an almost disappearance. Not in that order.

Minnie is developing a very particular sense of style, and I am here for it. Tutus and Champion slides? SIGN ME UP





Cooper got called up to play in the league above his for baseball last night, and you would have thought he was going to the majors. He was SO EXCITED. He played great— center field, short stop, catcher. He got on base with a dropped third strike, and 3 runs scored after that (one RBI for him). He hit the ball but got thrown out, and he also “got strucken out,” which is a phrase both he and Dorothy use that delights me. Harry had to work, and Jack was at the pool I assume freezing to death because it was 73 and breezy last night, so the girls and I dropped by the Little League fields to lend our support.

Minne, who ate pizza, French fries, and ice cream for dinner because we are awesome parents, demanded “wawa,” or, more specifically, a “wawa baba” from the concession stand and delighted herself by throwing little fluffy white pollen balls from the trees into the air and screaming “BUBBO.”

Dorothy screamed “I am going to the park!” And streaked over to the Little League playground as soon as we pulled up. Ben and Minnie joined her briefly while I talked to a professor in my department whose son was also playing ball. I checked on Dorothy after I joined Ben and Minnie, but then we both got absorbed in the game. Finally, Minnie and I were ready (past ready) for bed, and I asked Ben to grab Dorothy for me so the girls and I could meet Jack at home.

AND HE COULD NOT FIND HER. 

Before he alerted me to the problem, he scoured the pplayground and softball field, as well as the bathrooms, the concession stand, and some bushes at the perimeter of the park. Then we both sort of freaked out and started describing her to parents and kids at all 3 fields. Lots of kids reported seeing her and playing with her, but they didn’t know where she went. Dads joined in the hunt for a little girl with a curly blond ponytail in an orange dress and yellow Birks. Ben was about to get on the PA system and call for her (with the next step after that being calling the police) when word of her absence reached Coop on third base. As soon as his team’s side was retired, he ran to the dugout— where Dorothy and her softball friend were hanging out— and told her she was lost. Good old Cooper. He always knows where his sister is.

I have never been so happy to see someone in my entire life. 

She claims she told me as she ran by that she was going to play behind Coop’s dougout (literally the farthest point from the playground she could find and still technically be in the confines of the Little League park), and that might be true. I was really watching Cooper bat because a 10 year-old playing with giant 12-year-olds is adorable, and I never really worry about Dorothy at baseball. She always knows where to find us, and we have always also been able to find her. But yikes. SO SCARY.

Speaking of Dorothy:

She performed a solo dance in her school’s talent show, and it was DARLING. The whole talent show was adorbs. I as especially touched by a 4th grader reciting the Gettysburg Address (I cried a little) and a cute little neighbor doing a card trick.


Instead of dance class this penultimate week of the rec season, Dorothy has had PHOTO WEEK instead. So, 4 times (!!) we have done full-out hair and makeup and gone to the studio for pics and a quick parking lot performance. Her studio has a cute little stage and awesome speakers from 2020 when the only performance they could have was a parking lot show.

When the three of us (Minnie is my constant companion) showed up on Tuesday, a musical theatre class was all dressed up like Mirabel and dancing to Bruno, and Minnie was CHARMED. She asked for “mo” (with word and sign) music, and she immediately took off her shoes and claimed the stage. Except for having to be suitcased off of there every time a class came out to perform, she was a delight all 3 days of pictures.



Lyrical hair and makeup; sporty spice clothes. My fave!! I am a sucker for a 9 year-old in a full face.

I didn’t take any pics in her lyrical or tap costumes but never fear— dress rehearsal is next weekend!

Here she is after ballet pics, the official end of her photo week. Phew!!!

MY FLY WAS DOWN THE WHOLE TIME. AWESOME.
Other moms: posed photos by the sign and peonies.
Me:







 

Wednesday, June 01, 2022

May: What I Read



You can skip this probably

Homefront by Kristin Hannah: A Kristin Hannah book I didn’t like. WEIRD.  **audio

Definitely get these if you see them at the library

Hunt, Gather, Parent by Michaeleen Doucleff: Loved this book about avoiding power struggles and respecting little kids. Hated the evolutionary biology slant. **Audio

Beautiful Day by Elin Hilderbrand: I am addicted to these breezy and always touching Nantucket novels. **Audio 

You Love Me by Caroline Kepnes: This is the third You book. It was funnier than the other 2, but I did not love it.

Two Can Keep a Secret by Karen McManus: She’s THE BEST YA suspense writer. **Audio


56 Days by Catherine Ryan Howard: An excellent pandemic page-turner. **Audio

The Huntress by Kate Quinn: I have never loved Quinn, but then I listened to The Rose Code and her books on audio are SO GOOD. So now I am on a bit of a kick. I bought The Diamond Eye with my Audible credit last month but then all my library hold audio books came in, and I have yet to read it. Looking forward, though. This one was great! **Audio

Good ones I missed last year


Detransition, Baby by Torrey Peters: You have got to read this!

The Lincoln Highway by Amor Towles: Another book I mean to read last year-- excellent!

Add these to your must read list


Breathless by Amy McCulloch:  Elite mountain climbing murder and intrigue. **2022

The Christie Affair by Nina de Gramont: The best kind of historical fiction. **2022 *Audio



The Verifiers by Jane Pek: DELIGHTFUL and original. Loved it! **2022 **Audio

Book Lovers by Emily Henry: I have LIKED but not LOVED her other buzzy summer books. This one, though, is EXCELLENT! **2022




Booth by Karen Joy Fowler: I have been thinking about this book for DAYS. I did not love every page. The early middle was a muddle. BUT. The author's note at the end made me cry and reconsider the whole thing. Fowler is brilliant-- one of my very favorite authors. If you haven't read We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves, then you should right away. Her book At Wit's End is unbelievably clever. She's terrific, and this book is excellent I have decided. **2022

Sea of Tranquility by Emily St. John Mandel: Oh wow! I adored this book. I also LOVED Station Eleven, but I was not wild about The Glass Hotel. This book, though, is like the very best combination of both of them. You should read it. **2022

Bomb Shelter by Mary Laura Philpott: I wish I had written this— read it right away! **2022


This Month:

17 Books

7 books published in 2022

8 print book 9 audiobooks

This Year:

111 books

39 books published in 2022

56 print books and 55 audiobooks