I have traded my messy bun for a neat ponytail. WHO EVEN AM I YOU GUYS?I think we need a new puppy?
Harry Times...All Jacked Up
A vintage mom blog, written by a vintage mom blogger.
Monday, October 05, 2026
Life lately + Ask Me Anything
I have traded my messy bun for a neat ponytail. WHO EVEN AM I YOU GUYS?I think we need a new puppy?
Thursday, October 01, 2026
October! I love October!
Oh, my dears, we are right in the middle of the 'ber months, and like all basic bitches, I am thrilled.
October goals:
Read my Book the Month back ups (all of these, plus the new John Green that's on it's way)
Start a Girl Scout Troop. Minnie really wants to be a Girl Scout. We went to an intro meeting at the library where I thought I would be matched with an existing troop, but there aren't any open spots! The event was aimed at connecting people from the same grades and schools together to start troops, but we were the only people fromMinnie's school. Soooooo, I guess I'm starting a troop. YOU GUYS. HOW DOES THIS STUFF ALWAYS HAPPEN TO ME?Carry on our tradition of going out for a drink when Ben gets home for the week. I love this so far.September: What I Read
SO MANY BOOKS this month you guys! Mostly audio. And! This is the first month of the whole year that I have only read 3 books on my Kindle, instead of the book-a-week rhythm I was going for. I actually had a disturbing feats and famine book cycle this month instead of reading a little bit every day, so I am going to try to get better at habitual reading next month.
Here are my reads, from worst to best:
Baddies in a bad way (7)
ππBirding with Benefits by Sarah T. Dubb: Snooze. I read this light romance for the Pop Sugar challenge, and I did not like it very much.
ππTime to Burn by Ellery Lloyd. Meh. This should have been better, based on the plot about commercial time travel. This author is actually a husband/wife team, and I have liked their other books.
ππLove You More by Emily Giifn: It's not just her politics that suck.
ππAwake, Awake by Fiona Mozely: This was really buzzy, but it just... didn't do it for me.
π§Seating Arrangements by Maggie Shipstead: Anne told me the main character is really unlikable, but I went for it anyway.
π±πStart at the End by Emma Grey: NOPE. I usually really do like this author, but this (time travel! or at least multiple timeline!) romance did not totally work for me.
π±πForget me Not by Stacy Willingham: SNOOZEFEST.
Super solid back list titles you can probably get without a wait (3)
Not bad new books by old faves (2)
Best books of the MONTH (3)
BEST BOOKS OF THE YEEEEEAR (2)
Wednesday, September 30, 2026
Snippets
Some moments from a busy season:
My oatmeal exploded in the microwave at work when I ran upstairs between classes I was observing to eat breakfast, and I almost cried. Instead, I pivoted and ate my nectarine and plum with 2 of the granola bars I stock for my TAs. Calorically similar but not as filling.
Now Dorothy and Cooper are selling things on Depop as well as buying, and I am constantly going to the post office. I wish they could drive. I also wish they'd think about donating their cast-offs instead. But! I do like the idea of a fast fashion exchange. Is anything from Brandy Melville ever worth more than like $6 anyway?
Minnie is a joy to watch in the water at swim team practice. Is she the fastest swimmer? Absolutely not? Is she the most technically proficient swimmer? No not at all. Is she working her little tail off learning strokes and applying corrections from her coaches? YES SHE IS, and it is a delight to observe. She is such a good listener, and she is so determined to improve. I was like Minnie, I am so proud of you for working so hard and being so cheerful when your coaches tell you to fix something, and she looked at me like I was crazy and said MOM THAT'S WHEN THE LEARNING HAPPENS, AND I LOVE TO LEARN.
On a Friday afternoon, I cleaned up my office, recycled papers from literal YEARS ago, and prepped what I needed for my first meeting of the day on Monday. I loved spending just a few minutes taking care of future me, and when I got to campus a few minutes late the following Monday and had a student come immediately to my office before I even had a chance to walk down the hall and fill up my teeny tiny Hydroflask, I felt pulled together and ready to welcome them.
Snack box Sunday is still working for me. I really like asking Dorothy and Cooper to tell me what they're hungry for on the weekend when I am grocery shopping and then packing a whole week's worth of on-the-go snacks. This week, Cooper's box has 47 grams of protein and 5 grams of fiber, and Dorothy's has 27 grams of protein (she does not drink a protein drink like Cooper does) and 4 grams of fiber. Not bad
Cooper! Is a permitted driver. WHAT.Monday, September 28, 2026
Quick trip to Eau Claire
We had so much fun driving up to see Harry on Sunday. The drive was lovely because the leaves are starting to change, and the weather was crisp but still friendly-- fun all around.
Friday, September 25, 2026
Fall Food: 2 cozy things I have made + 3 on my wish list
I have already made PUMPKIN MUFFINS so we could bring some to Jack, and they were as delightful as I imagined they would be-- hot take: THEY MUST HAVE CHOCOLATE CHIPS.
I also ADORE this salad, and it was perfect with arugula and chicken mixed in the next day and as a stand-alone side dish the first day. I think beets would be an excellent addition.
I have big plans to make these pumpkin oatmeal cookies from NYT cooking
I also really want to slot in these enchiladas
Dorothy and I have big plans to go to Trader Joe's and buy a bunch of pumpkin and fall things for a big snack board dinner on Saturday, so we can watch Toy Story 5 with Ben and Minnie while Cooper and crew goes to HOCO. SO COZY, you guys!! Will report back on fall treats.
Wednesday, September 23, 2026
Bradley Fam Weekend
Clearly, the girls and I have a shoe type. That type is Addidas. Kids shoes for all.
That was our shoe circle sitting near the door of our Peoria hotel room because we spent the second! weekend! in! a! ROW!! in P-town this time for Parents' Weekend at Bradley.
We enjoyed a pickleball tourney, cookies the size of our faces, dinner and dessert with my mom and Steve, some Peoria shoe shopping for Jack, and the Peoria Riverfront Museum's America 250 exhibit.
We were so blown away to see that painting of GW up close and in person that we got TOO up close and in person, and in the live version of that pic, you can hear the alarm going off. OOPS.













































