Showing posts with label mom life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mom life. Show all posts

Friday, July 24, 2026

Life According to my iPhone

As always, I look to my camera roll to tell me what the heck has been going on.

First off, big news for a new tiny diver:

Speaking of the pool, I AM IN LOVE WITH SUPER GOOP.

All City Dive preparations ate in full swing (that's me on the podium that came to the pool IN MY CAR from the pool hosting the swim portion of the meet)
One of the kids had a video doc visit early in the AM, so I wore tinted CeraVe sunscreen on my run and felt almost camera-ready

We had time after dinner the other night and before we needed to pick Cooper up from work (lol how all good date nights end), so we went to a local conservancy to take a walk.
Cooper is way taller than I am now
Minnie adored her water ballet performance.

Her dance was to "Itsy Bitsy Teeny Weeny Yellow Polka Dot Bikini" obvs

Dessert party afterwards


The only thing more ill advised than this pattern mixing combo was running during an AQI alert.

Last Friday's dive meet had face painting
I figure fried is the best way to eat veggies right now.
Wearing my swim suit as clothes. THAT'S WHAT THIS SUMMER HAS COME TO.
Make it Monday


Hottest baseball tourney EVAR. (Coop's team won and got rings as trophies-- super cute)
Reading material I found on Minnie's bed
HER FACE
Senior night at the pool!!

This is one of the rare large toys I have bought at Costco that isn't actually too big IRL
She's got the Lego bug

 

Tuesday, May 12, 2026

Mother's Day

 Ben and Cooper were in Florida for a quick trip for Cooper to compete in the USA Diving Junior World Trials in platform diving. The top 20 kids in the country were invited to compete, and the top 2 get to go to Worlds. Cooper finished 15th (and the top 12 made finals, so he was  coulda woulda shoulda-ing himself like crazy), and we are SO PROUD of him. He is 14 year old competing in the 14-15 age group for the second year (terrible dive birthday!), and he is SOCLOSE to just being consistently amazing. What's frustrating for him right now is that he has hit all of his dives in competition for 8's at some point this season--but never all of them in the same competition. We have been really committed to traveling a lot for dive this year because we think the more reps he has in high stakes comps in front of judges, the more likely he is going to be to find that consistency. It's just so fun to watch him, and he loves the circuit ad has made great friends all over the country-- it's pretty amazing.



Harry came home for CPR certification in advance of another summer managing the pool, and he brought a ton of stuff home with him, which is great because once again his deadbeat parents are not available for move-out weekend, and he's going to have to bring his entire life home in a Kia sedan. Also shout out to Harry for being so capable. It was also great to have him home for Mother's Day. He is used to drinking an iced mocha every day from Kwik Trip but does not want to spend $5 a coffee all summer when is is likely going to be paying for parking downtown quite a bit. Luckily for him, I have an awesome and EASY EASY EASY cold brew coffee maker, so he can use chocolate milk, Swiss Miss coco packets, cold brew, and caramel creamer to get the same effect at home for free!

Jack and I did some not-planned twinning


We all went out for breakfast and came home to watch Cooper dive on TV-- always fun!


I got an awesome weed puller tool and spent an hour doing just one teeny little patch of lawn-- SO SATISFYING

Minnie and some neighborhood kids chalked the sidewalk for Mother's Day, and she read books on the porch after some serious scootering



We ended the day at Bar Taco and did a little shopping for dresses for Dorothy to wear to Jack's graduation-- the Macy's fitting rooms still have ash trays LOL FOR DAYS CAN YOU EVEN IMAGINE smoking while you try on clothes.


Ben and Cooper comae home late after everyone else was in bed, and I had hoped to make a candle from my new candle-making kit, but I was TIRED and hot wax seems to demand more focus than I was able to give it.

Such a lovely, low key day.

Monday, October 13, 2025

Life Lately

 


Some neighbors around the corner have a yard bursting with giant Halloween blow ups. Minnie really wanted to be "that house," too, but we are just constantly buffeted by wind in our front yard, and blow ups-- especially big ones-- are tricky. We got these instead, and they are exactly kindergartener sized. Kids walk up and high five them every morning during school drop off and again during afternoon pick up.

And our very own kindergartener likes to take pics with them before school.


Am I wearing the barrel jeans, or are they wearing me?
Jumped on the mary jane trend, too.
Shout out to Trader Joe's for the awesome bake-at-home sugar cookies. They are super simple, make the whole house smell delicious, and continue to delight Minnie every week. FALL WIN for sure.
Jack went to Homecoming with the same kids he has been friends with since middle school-- it was pretty adorable. I really can't believe they're seniors this year! Ben and I took advantage of the kids taking pics at the Capitol and squeezed in a quick date night-- it is amazing to have back up babysitter kids when your main babysitter kid is busy.








Monday, April 07, 2025

Low grocery week! Can I keep this up! Also: AMAZING KID RESULTS

 Before I rest on my grocery saving laurels, I should note that we also did a Target run for cleaning supplies and a trip to the local grocery for wine, cheese, and salads-in-a-bag, and I don't know how much that cost because Ben went, and I hate checking my account balances. #badatadulting. ALSO, we spent all of the money eating all of our meals at restaurants last weekend because SO MANY KID THINGS. (Srsly we had lunch and dinner out Friday-Sunday, which is very much not like us, but was necessary.)

BUT! I only spent $308 at the grocery store! That;'s unheard of around here! 

Menu:

Sunday (yesterday LOL): Burgers, chips and veggies and dips, green beans, peanut butter cookies (I had a Costco chipotle black bean burger wrapped in lettuce, and it was SO DELISH).

M-W: SO MANY options! Sandwiches and crudite, breakfast sandwiches, eggs, pancakes, and fruit, pizza, spaghetti, deli fried chicken-- I will fully commit to being a short order cook as we get through another week full of kid things. Also there is a very good chance that takeout is in the cards tonight because Minnie and Cooper have to come to campus with me for a 4-6 thing.

Thurs: Grilled chicken breasts, baked potatoes, broccoli, salad. 

Friday: No clue! Maybe tacos; maybe spaghetti. We'll see where the wind takes us.

Weekend: Dorothy has a Chicago dance convention/competition, but Ben might take her because she has only one dance (it's only for the company dances, and most of hers compete at the club level), and she wears her hair down for it. Soooooo, I could be home alone with everyone else-- meaning I will probably throw money at my feelings.

KID STUFF (aka THE GOOD PART)

Jack had his state speech competition on Saturday. He competes in a category called special occasion speaking, and in WI, this (funny-- think mini stand-up routine built around a specific topic to a fake audience) category has 3 prompts that the students can choose from. The prompts are determined at the state coaches' meeting in July, so kids theoretically have from July-December to work on their speeches, but Jack? Decided to write his 6-minute speech the week of the year's first tournament, where he placed 4th and then took off like a (non spaceX) rocket! 

He has won so many competitions this year, and he was so happy heading into state (hosted at his very own school no less!) This year, students could choose from a motivational speech by a coach, a villain monologue, or a welcome-to-camp speech. Jack did the camp speech, and it was HILARIOUS and BANANAS. SO much physical humor! SO many dark jokes about middle schoolers! He did a cartwheel In a suit! And did a Russian jump that was always higher than classroom desks! 

He was elated to make semi finals (he has never broken into out-rounds at state before). Coop and I went to the high school when the semis were over to wait and see if he made finals because we planned to watch. Well! Jack's coach could not contain his delight and told Jack he was the top speaker going into finals before the postings had even dropped. Jack was SO EXCITED. To make things even sweeter, 2 of his teammates also made the final (it's unusual for schools to have HALF of the final round, so the whole team was thrilled, and anyone not in their own round came to watch.) 

Jack was AWESOME in the final round, and the whole round was just ridiculously funny. Kids! They're so smart and talented. Jack got to speak in his AP history classroom, and the room was stuffed to the gills with people sitting in the aisles and standing in the back. Jack got the most laughs for sure, and he was clearly so happy and proud of himself.

The whole fam came to school for awards, and JACK TOOK SECOND PLACE IN THE WHOLE STATE OF WI! His teammate got third, and his other teammate won. It was SO COOL!











Also happening this weekend! The AAU Red-White-Blue national dive qualifier! PHEW! Okay. SO. AAU has a national tournament that you qualify for with a certain score at regular season meets. Coop has already hit that mark, meaning there's a CA summer tourney he can attend where the top 2 in each event get to go to London to compete. But then! AAU has a more prestigious tourney that you have to qualify for where the top 3 in each event go to Croatia and also become part of the AAU national team. That's the one Coop qualified for this weekend (yay!!!), and he will compete at nats in Charlotte, NC, over Memorial Day weekend. He has ONE MORE national qualifier series coming up for a chance to compete at the USA Diving junior nationals (this is the big kahuna of national tourneys) also in CA this summer. I don't think he will go to both AAU national meets, but we will have to see where the USA Diving chips fall.

He had platform on Friday (3rd!!), 1-meter on Saturday (8th-- a real bummer, and he hopes a qual for that event bumps down to him by kids who finished in the top 6 deciding not to go to the tourney-- this is a thing that happens because some kids are USA Diving-only competitors, so we will see), and 3-meter on Sunday (6th! A qual!). His age group was STACKED with USA Diving national finalists, so these finishes were a BATTLE. And even though he dove poorly on Saturday (it was baaaaaaaad-- he got 3.5's on a dive or 2), he was able to come back strong on Sunday-- a very big thing for him. Also, he has a poorly timed dive birthday because he will be 14 at the end of 2025, but he has to dive with the 14-15 boys all year, even though he is a teeny little 13 y/o 7th grader, and some of these kids are full MEN and already 15 years old.

Here I am watching the meet with a state runner up
Coop was WINNING THE MEET for 2 rounds on Saturday before the wheels fell off (he got EIGHTS):
Listen to me at the end of this dive
But! This was awesome from Friday:
And here is where he punched his nationals ticket

Look how happy!!